Daniel olukoya, the general overseer of the mountain of fire and miracles ministries mfmm as delivered at a youth church. I pray that this book will lead all leaders to seek a closer walk with god in all areas. And thats a nice, poetic way to look at a marriage as a whole. I have been praying about this but i think if i can get a copy of your book how to choose a life partner, it will take me a step forward to know gods will for life concerning a wife. How to choose a life partner by bimbo odukoya goodreads. Let me illustrate how deceptive the worlds definition of love can be. The world tells you, go and search for a husband or wife. People generally do good things because they expect something in return. Have your life disciplined and godly and in reasonably good order.
It was a life changer and im so thankful i read it must read if youre ready for marriageo. Why finding a life partner isnt that simple psychology. I am rawfoodist, and consequently i should marry only a rawfoodist, a fruitarian, or. When christians are seeking a partner in marriage, it is essential for them to seek the. Because every person needs a partner at some point in life, the.
Let you will be done in my life,as it is in heaven. Ther are lots of real life stories and lessons to learn from each story in the book. Ive met with scores of couples for premarital counseling through the years. A christian is someone who is an active follower and imitator of jesus, who has surrendered his or her life, been baptized and has received the holy spirit. And one of the first points i try to get across to them is that desire does not equal love.
He advocates for a return of principled reason to the process of choosing a partner. With warmth and wisdom that only comes from weathering the storms of life, in choosing a life that matters, authordennis rainey shares seven ways to not only build a strong foundation, but to choose to live the life of purpose and potential you were created for. Your choice of life mate will impact every aspect of your being. I believe this will lead to a contented life that hopes rather than fears. We pray this prayer and lift up our heartfelt desires in the blessed name of jesus, amen. Daniel olukoya, mfm being quotes from a message, choosing a life partner, by dr. Seeking first gods kingdom is the primary factor in finding the right marriage partner. Instead of wrong wisdom that will end you up in matrimonial calamity, you need the right wisdom of. Choosing a marriage partner gods best brian warnes. It will influence your happiness, career success, health, finances, children, friends and family, so its not a decision you want to take lightly. The author has explained things that one has to consider before choosing a marriage partner.
Let me share some of the insights that crystallized over. He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the lord. The world, satan, is a snare to christians and many have fallen to its deception. The principles in this book will guide you through a period that, for some, is the most confusing time of life. Someone has described the time of youth going into marriage as the grave yard of christian youths spirituality.
God does care which college you attend but not necessarily in the way that you think. Because every person needs a partner at some point in life, the world has provided its ways of finding a husband or wife. He is the author of several books, including what medical doctor will not tell you, dont quit that marriage. One of the most important decisions you will ever make in life is that of choosing a life partner. How can a christian identify his or her life partner. Long ago, god challenged his people israel to make the ultimate life choice. The fact that you are on this site reading this column is a sign that your search for a life partner is on the right track, for you obviously believe that the catholic faith is a vital foundation for any great relationship to succeed. The kind of good described in this way of life, however, is primarily selfish.
In this book he shows to all who are unmarried that there is a better way than the world would teach to find a marriage partner gods way is the way of true blessing. We all can meet a good person,for god chosen life partner. Externallyinfluenced ed lets other people play way too big a part in the life partner decision. What is gods standard and perfect will about choosing a life partner. What are the necessary things he or she should do in order not to fall into the hands of a deceiver.
Choosing a life partner must not be done without careful and prayerful consideration. Christian articles, christian books, whats new faithwriters. To do so successfully, we must start with the first and most basic choicechoosing the way that leads to life. Why finding a life partner isnt that simple why operant conditioning can make dating tough, and what to do about it.
Being a christian entails more than just believing in jesus or accepting jesus in ones heart. This site is like a library, use search box in the widget to get ebook that you want. If you are thinking about getting married you need to read. Let us guard ourselves from songs, films, books, plays etc. See, i have set before you today life and good, death and evil. If those who are contemplating marriage would not have miserable, unhappy reflections after marriage, they must make it a subject of serious, earnest reflection now. We start the book with a discussion on the status of marriage as an institution. The world, satan, is a snare to christians and many have fallen to its. Choosing your life partner living light christian church. The choosing of a life partner is deeply personal, enormously complicated, different for everyone, and almost impossible to understand from the outside, no matter how well you know someone. In the world today we have so many deceivers and we have been consciously or unconsciously trained to hide our real selves most of the time. As well as this, a number of excellent books have been published in. In short, debra reveals how choosing marriage, every day, leads to deep and abiding lifelong love. How is one supposed to do it in a biblical godly way.
Ron mehl kept the promise to his sons that each book was unique and would never be published. Author of several books including 10 lies the church tells women. This article covers 14 principles for finding a godly christian partner in this rather lonely world. I just dont want to take anyone for a life partner who will take me away from the lord. Choosing wisely in life download ebook pdf, epub, tuebl. Section 3choosing the life partner chapter 6the great decision. Nothing should be more important to you or to the person you marry than your spiritual well being.
Choosing your life partner the person you want to spend the rest of your days with is one of the most important decisions youll make in your life. God loves you just the way you are, and you dont need a husband or. How to find a husband or wife the gods way christian truth center. Your preparation towards choosing a life partner should begin as early as possible. Our lord jesus christ,is so good,thank you,for always help us all,to looking for a partner.
Single christians are often told that all they must do is wait on god for a mate. Choosing a life partner is the biggest decision youll make outside of. Chapter 5 dr chandrakumar chapter 5 how to choose your life partner if you are a believer in christ, your life partner should also be a believer 2 cor. It was a life changer and i m so thankful i read it must read if youre ready for marriageo. He was a bahamian evangelical christian evangelist and ordained pentecostal minister. How to choose a life partner with pictures wikihow. But many christians wonder, how can i know gods guidance, especially in the crucial decision of whom i should marry. Choosing a life partner by dr myles munroe must watch for. In the same way, the husbands body does not belong to him alone but. Some people neglect this topic, because love is the most important thing. Work on making yourself the sort of person that a godly christian would like to marry.
But if anyone thinks he is behaving improperly toward his virginity, if that is past the bloom of youth, and this is the way it should take place, let him do what he wants. Choosing a spouse is the biggest decision youll make outside of choosing to accept jesus christ as savior. When the winds of culture blow, you will be able to stand firm on the truth. It is one that i was asked many times, in one form or another, during my 25 years as a pastor. One important way you can lay solid foundation and secure gods guidance throughout the whole process of choosing your life partner is praying. Click download or read online button to get choosing wisely in life book now. Nathan gebharad offered some tips on that in an article in the new york times. Oh lord and our god, be first and foremost in all decisions and promises we make as husband and wife. Except for the decision to trust christ as savior, its been said that there is no more significant decision anyone will make than who to marry. Brian, susan and their five children live in the most easterly town in britain, where brian is involved in the house building industry. Know gods will when choosing your life partner vasile filat 22 june 2008 answers from the bible some time ago i had a discussion with a young christian man who wanted to marry, but he asked an advice concerning knowledge of gods will choosing his life partner. Finding a life partner kindle edition by nganga, john. Been in relationship for 8 years and married for 6 years, and heres what i can say.
Pain and desperation are driving them to clumsily adopt the ways of the world in finding a life partner. Download pdf how to choose better life partner free. Therefore i tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you. The book will expose you to the biblical guidelines and procedures guiding a christians choice of a life partner and how to be certain that god is actually leading and guiding in your choice of a life partner. Choosing him is the last choice you ever need to make. After choosing a college, of course, theres also the whole issue of choosing a major. How to find gods will when choosing a marriage partner kindle edition by tohline, jayce. Living most of your life with the person you love can be a joyous, mutuallyfulfilling experience, but finding and choosing the right person can be a monumental task. In this booklet the subject is treated in a straightforward way with simplicity. How we choose a partner the book of life is the brain of the school of life, a gathering of the best ideas around wisdom and emotional intelligence. Myles offers some of the best advice on the subject of finding the one with whom you will spend the rest of your life. It will enable you to know the right qualities to look in the lives of your several suitors and how to prepare yourself for marriage. It is a logical way to look for a mate instead of just keep dating until you find.
What common mistakes do people make when choosing a life. As i pen these words of guidance in choosing a partner for life, i do so in the. Choosing a life partner is the biggest decision youll make outside of choosing to accept jesus christ as savior. Six questions to consider in choosing a life partner. Learning to bring your love life under christs control by elisabeth elliot.
Those six questions to ponder in choosing a life partner you revealed in your article are very important. As a child of god, the preparation essentially begins with prayers. Choosing a life partner the person you choose to partner with for life is one of the most important decisions you will ever make. This is one of the best book on marriage, that i have ever read. I would recommend it to every single person out there who has not yet made a decision, or is struggling to make one concerning a life partner. What is gods perfect will about choosing a life partner. Each coloured link within the article will lead you to a related topic on another page on this site. In his book courtship and marriage, moral theologian fr.
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